
Shirley Hyman – Hickman
The Last Sightings of Shirley Heyman Hickman: A 1981 Philadelphia Cold Case Plea
On August 28, 1981, Shirley Heyman Hickman stepped out of Park Avenue Cafe Bar in Philadelphia. She was crying and upset. Witnesses saw her climb into a blue van with two strange men. Friends and family had left the bar earlier. Police questioned the men later. Both said they dropped her off safe. But Shirley vanished that night. No one saw her again. Her family still hunts for answers in this cold case.
Shirley Hickman: Portrait of a Life Interrupted
Shirley lived a full life before that night. She was loving and full of energy. Her daughter remembers her as spunky and outgoing. Shirley loved her family most of all.
A Loving Mother and Family Woman
Shirley raised three girls with care. She enjoyed dancing and dressing up nice. Bowling and pool were her games. She sang in the church choir too. Family came first for her. She made everyone feel welcome.
Her little girl often trailed her. At four or five, the child worried. “The bad man gonna take her,” she’d say. Dad had to pick her up from police once. Shirley was that all-American mom. Everyone loved her spark.
The Final Days: Tension and Foreboding
Things got tough before August 28. Shirley split from her husband. The family stayed at her best friend’s house. It had four bedrooms back home. Why crash elsewhere? She cried packing her daughter’s bag.
The girl turned 12 on the 27th. Mom planned a party. Then she sent her to auntie’s. “I’m okay,” Shirley said through tears. She talked about calling dad for money. A strange warning came next. “Tell friends the truth if their boyfriend hits on you.”
The daughter wondered. Was it aunt’s husband? No names given. Mom stopped crying. Said she’d meet dad, play pool with uncle. Call when you arrive, she told the girl. That was the last talk.
Critical Age and Timeline Details
Shirley was 31 years old. Born March 23, 1950. Some sites say 1951 or give the wrong height. She stood 5 feet 1 inch. Her daughter was already taller at 5’2″. These facts matter for searches. Wrong info wastes time.
She wore shorts when daughter left. Later outfit: white sweater, blue jeans, slip-on sandals. A wreath-like ring and sunglasses too. Bartender confirmed that look.
The Immediate Aftermath and Questionable Police Response
Days passed with no word. Family called around. No cell phones back then. Just landlines and visits. Panic set in slow.
Last Known Location and Witnesses
Park Avenue Cafe Bar sat in the neighborhood. Not huge, but roomy. Bar in middle, pool tables back. Cubby seats up front, kitchen side. Shirley knew it well. Played pool there often.
Bartender knew her too. Lived across street. Kids went to same school. Saw Shirley talk to two men. She cried hard. They led her out back door. Blue van waited. No front window. Door propped open for street view.
Why no help? Police station right across. No one ran over. These men weren’t regulars. Friends gone by then.
Family Efforts and Confusion
Daughter stayed at aunt’s. Assumed mom would call. Clothes at aunt’s house confused her. Shorts in hamper. Bar outfit gone from bed. Did she change?
Aunt Sandra called family. Stepdad saw her Friday night. Left her and uncle at bar. Uncle’s neighborhood too. He wouldn’t let sister leave crying with strangers.
Grandma called on 31st. Come home now. No reason given. Family searched houses. No trace.
The Estranged Husband and Uncle’s Presence
Stepdad dropped birthday cash. Uncle played pool with her. Both left early. Bar felt safe. It happened before. But not this time.
Developing Leads: The Blue Van and Uncooperative Subjects
Years later, clues surfaced. Private eyes helped. Names and spots linked to the van.
Interrogation of the Driver
Driver admitted the ride. Dropped them near 26th and Indiana. Passenger’s hood. Just a favor, he claimed. Police had notes too.
A Plea for Closure: Bringing Shirley Home
Police dropped ball. Files are gone. Detectives retired. 35th District shrugs. Calls ignored. Cold case unit exists. But no file found. Archives should hold notes. Family chases ghosts.
Conclusion: The Enduring Need for Justice and Remembrance
Shirley Heyman Hickman deserves rest. Not court wins after 45 years. Bring her home. Philly saw that blue van. Men got out. Someone knows.
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